Jessie J opens up about the moment a doctor told her she can't have kids and her response was INCREDIBLE
She wrote 'Four Letter Word' about her experience
Author: Laura ThorntonPublished 17th Nov 2018 Last updated 17th Nov 2018
This week singer Jessie J was performing at the Royal Albert Hall for the latest leg of her R.O.S.E. tour when she stopped and addressed the crowd to explain the super emotional meaning behind her song 'Four Letter Word'. She explained to her fans that she wrote the song after being told she couldn't have children.
"So four years ago I was told that I couldn't have children, and it's ok I'm going to have children trust me. When the doctor told me, my reaction was, "Oh hell no". I don't tell you for sympathy as I'm one of millions of women and of men who have gone through this, and will go through this and it can't become something that defines us."
She continued, "But, I wanted to write this song for myself in my moment of pain and of sadness. But, also to give myself joy and give other people something that they can listen to in that moment when it gets really hard."
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Jessie has been wowing her fans on her latest tour, including celebrity fan and rumoured boyfriend Channing Tatum. Taking to Instagram to gush about his new girlfriend, Channing shared a photo from Jessie's gig at The Royal Albert Hall, writing, 'This woman just poured her heart out on stage at the Royal Albert Hall. Whoever was there got to witness something special. Wow.' sic
However it's not all plain-sailing as Jessie as people have been talking about how much she resembles Channing's ex-wife Jenna Dewan, who he was married to for nearly a decade and has a daughter, Everly, with. People have been quite nasty in the things they have said about Jessie, so she took to her Instagram to hit back. She posted screenshots of a long statement that questioned who could feel good from the story and that women won't get a positive message from it.
