Ava Max opens up about her song 'Torn' and dealing with bullies

She was bullied a lot growing up

Ava Max
Author: Anna Sky Magliola

'Sweet But Psycho' singer Ava Max joined Hits Radio Breakfast with Fleur East, Greg and James this morning (27th September) via Skype, and she opened up about her current single 'Torn'. The singer, who has Albanian heritage, grew up in the US, to refugee parents and said she was bullied a lot when she was young.

"Growing up I was bullied a lot and it was really hard for me actually," Ava explained, "My parents were both refugees to America and they had no money, they didn't know the language, so I didn't know the language until like eight years old, so I was just the outsider always."

With a number of pop stars having families who have come from Eastern Europe, including Dua Lipa, Bebe Rexha, and Rita Ora, we were keen to find out if there could be a massive collaboration on the horizon, and Ava's reaction says it all. "I would freak, that would be awesome, let's do a whole new Lady Marmalade," the singer replied.

WATCH: Ava Max speaks about her childhood and how to deal with bullies

Ava's current song 'Torn' unintentionally has an Abba influence, with Ava admitting, "Oh my God, I love Abba. And it's funny because that wasn't the initial inspiration.

"It just happened to sound like that," she continued, "Maybe it sounded similar because I did listen to some Abba growing up, Ace of Base. I love disco and of course just like any disco is so much fun. So we wanted to add a little disco flair in there."

WATCH: The music video for Ava Max's 'Torn

Speaking about her breakout song 'Sweet But Psycho', Ava touched on whether she saw herself as sweet or a psycho, revealing details of her first break-up which was a painful personal experience.

“I've never said this story, but my first ever boyfriend told me he was single, (and) he said he didn't have a Facebook. Four months later, I found him on Facebook…" Ava revealed.

"It said 'in a relationship with' da da da. I was like out of my mind. I just started crying on the floor because it was my first boyfriend and I was crushed. I called him and I messaged the girl saying 'He's cheating, he's lying to you’.

"Apparently I thought I was the only girl in his life. It was insane. He was gaslighting me after I found out. He was like, 'What, it's your fault for looking on Facebook'. I'm like 'What?'"

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