Pride: Your need-to-know guide 🌈

So you've heard a bit about Pride, or you've been going for years but have never made it to the parade, or you're simply Pride-curious? Read our need-to-know!

Author: Sophie WilkinsonPublished 1st Jun 2022
Last updated 7th Jun 2022

1st June marked the start of Pride Month, and to kick off the celebrations we've put together a handy guide with everything you need to know about Pride. If you want to know where it came from, what it means, and who it's for, read on...

What is Pride?

Pride is an annual celebration of the achievements of LGBTQ+ rights - so far. LGBTQ+ includes: lesbians, gay people, bisexuals, trans* people, queer people, intersex people, agender and asexual people - basically anyone who isn’t the cookie-cutter ideal of a straight, cis - that means someone whose gender matched their sex they were assigned at birth - man, attracted exclusively to straight, cis women, and vice versa.

It’s a lot less segmented as it sounds, especially with more and more people identifying as sexually fluid. People at Pride don’t necessarily wear great big badges saying exactly how they identify, but the idea is they consider themselves somehow involved in and affected by the LGBTQ+ rights movement.

Pride is much more than just a parade and a street party and an excuse to get wildly day-drunk, though. It’s a protest.

Where did Pride parades start?

In late 1960s New York, there weren’t many places that LGBTQ+ people could go out and meet with one another. The average bar, club or restaurant would be hostile to LGBTQ+ people, and many proprietors didn’t want to take their money. The people who were happy with LGBTQ+ money, though, were the Mafia. They ran The Stonewall Inn, which welcomed not only LGBTQ+ people, but some of the poorest and most marginalised members of the community. One warm June evening - incidentally, the day after gay icon Judy Garland’s funeral - police raided The Stonewall Inn.

This was a routine thing, where bars with LGBT+ people would be raided by police apparently looking for bootleg liquor. Usually this was just a cover to arrest LGBT+ people for simply…being. They would also normally tip off staff at the Stonewall, but employees said that, that night, they hadn’t been alered.

Normally - how shameful that raids on people simply drinking in one of the few places they felt safe being ‘out’ became normal - the police could control everything, chuck all the patrons into wagons and send them off to the nearest station to be held in cells overnight. But this time, the clientele resisted. People began gathering outside, heckling the police, and soon began fighting them. What followed were three days of riots, and the beginning of a brand new, strident part of the LGBTQ+ rights movement. Each year for an entire month, is commemorated by LGBTQ+ people and their allies.

Is Pride just a parade?

Well, no. But on Pride day - which changes depending on location, but it’s always sometime around the summer, at least in that country’s summer - there is a parade, followed by street parties or events at clubs and pubs. Many places also have a mini-festival to celebrate Pride.

Who walks in a Pride parade?

As well as a bunch of corporate sponsors who assist in making the entire parade possible, there are: unions, charities, professional networks, kink groups, activists, political parties…the idea is that everyone is welcome. Sometimes that’s caused problems, and UKIP have been banned from the march (funnily enough, too many LGBTQ+ people who believe immigrants are wholly homophobic are really keen to support UKIP!) as a result.

Heartwarmingly, a lot of straight miners will march for the LGBTQ+ community, behind their beautiful banners. This is because, in the 1980s, when the Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher was threatening to close the mines (she eventually did), the LGBTQ+ community rallied around them, holding fundraisers for their cause. There’s a whole film about it, called…Pride!

What are the world’s biggest Pride festivals?

Depends on what you mean by ‘big’. Unfortunately, Pride celebrations have been cancelled for the last couple of years due to Covid-9, but some of the festivals with the most attendees in the last few years have been:

Madrid, 2017 - 3,000,000

Houston, 2016 - 750,000 +

Chicago, 2016 - 1,000,000

London, 2015 - 1,000,000+

Houston, 2015 - 700,000

San Francisco, 2014 - 1,700,000

Cologne, 2013 - 1,000,000

Madrid 2012, 1,200,000

Berlin, 2012 - 700,000

Rome, 2011 - 1,000,000

But the fact there are Prides in some countries that can otherwise contain homophobia and transphobia is pretty big too.

Cape Town Pride

This one takes place in South Africa, where ‘corrective rape’ is routinely done to lesbians and gay men are sexually assaulted for similar reasons.

Belgrade, Serbia

49% of Serbs believe that being LGBT+ is a disease, and in 2010 there were homophobic riots sparked by Pride. But Pride continues there, and this year it celebrated the election of Ana Brnabic, who is not only the first female Prime Minister of Serbia, but its first lesbian Prime Minister!

Uganda

In 2014 the Ugandan government tried to introduce the death penalty for homosexuality, and this lead to a spike in persecution of LGBT+ people. Gay men were outed on the front pages of newspapers, in the knowledge that people would attack these innocents. Yet still, despite police’s best efforts, the LGBT+ community still put on a series of Pride events.

Russia

LGBT+ ‘propaganda’ is illegal there, effectively driving any Pride events underground. In 2013, Copenhagen very sweetly dedicated its Pride to Russian LGBT+ people.

Honduras

Honduras has a very high murder rate - 60 per 100,000, but it also has the highest rate of trans murders per capita, yet brave activists still hold a pride there...

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This article originally appeared on The Debrief.