Urgent appeal for foster carers in North Yorkshire
More children than ever before are going into care across Yorkshire and the Humber
About 1,000 new foster carers are needed in the Yorkshire and the Humber region, with more children coming into care than ever before.
Seven key councils in Yorkshire and the Humber are working together this Foster Care Fortnight to highlight the need for one thousand more carers in the region with the launch of a short film.
The film about fostering features what it is like to be a carer and the moments both foster carers and children in care will experience as they work together to turn the child’s life around.
North Yorkshire Council’s executive member for children and families, Cllr Janet Sanderson, said: “Foster Care Fortnight is a wonderful time to thank our foster carers for everything they do. Fostering is rewarding and challenging and the collaborative film we’ve made celebrates the moments that make a difference. We do need more foster carers to look after local children.”
In North Yorkshire alone, at any given time about 300 fostering families are needed to offer a safe and loving home to the local children in care.
"Take the little wins"
A former headteacher, Julie Kent, from Selby has spent the last two years fostering siblings, Scott and Georgia aged nine and 10 and offers planned sleepovers to other children.
Mrs Kent, aged 58, has a 28-year-old son and 18-year-old daughter, and it was always part of her plan to foster when she retired and her children were older.
She said: “There have been many highs and lows and as a headteacher I thought I had seen it all. I hadn’t!
“The foster children I care for have experienced trauma in their life, so I’ve had difficult behaviour to deal with, sometimes 24/7 and my daughter had never witnessed that before.
“It’s been quite hard on my daughter to adjust, but she’s learning new skills to be able to manage the outbursts we get from the siblings.
Mrs Kent went onto explain how she has supported the children to broaden their horizons and achieve academically.
“When the children came to me, they hadn’t been going to school regularly, and hadn’t read an entire book ever,” she said. “They’ve just received certificates for 100 per cent attendance and a big high was getting through a whole book together.
“They had never been to a birthday party and never had a pair of wellies to jump in a puddle. They took part in sports day and previously have never had family there to support them, so the joy on their faces when they spotted me in the crowd was a delight to see.”
She added: “Being a foster carer is a ride. You have good days and bad days, and it helps to lower your expectations.
“Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, or the children you care for. I feel well supported by Fostering North Yorkshire and other foster carers – we have a strong community. Take the little wins, take time out for yourself and for your own family. I don’t regret becoming a foster carer – watching the children grow up and seeing how they understand the world is lovely to see.”