'There is no rhyme or reason for what happened but we will never forget the care and compassion we received'

Once lockdown restrictions are eased a couple from Taunton are planning a 900 mile cycle ride in memory of their three-year-old son Jude.

Laura and Jude
Author: Andrew KayPublished 8th Feb 2021
Last updated 8th Feb 2021

In just two months the family have already raised over £46,000, exceeding their initial target of £10,000, for Bristol Children’s Hospital - which they've now increased to £50,000.

Laura and Richard decided to support the children's hospital because they said they were 'overwhelmed by the support and compassion they received' whilst there.

On June the 5th 2020, three-year-old Jude suddenly passed away unexpectedly - leaving his family devastated.

Only 48 hours before his death Jude was a happy and healthy little boy.

As they left the hospital Laura and Richard promised to raise as much money as possible for The Grand Appeal, the dedicated charity for Bristol Children’s Hospital - and put the wheels in motion to organise an epic fundraising challenge in Jude’s memory called 'Jogle for Jude'.

Jogle for Jude will see Jude’s Dad, Richard and 17 friends’ cycle from John O’Groats to Lands End. The group aims to set off on their 900-mile trip on 8 May 2021 to complete the challenge in just 9 days, averaging 100 miles a day.

They decided to finish in Lands End so that Jude’s six-year-old brother Tobias will be able to join them for the last few miles and cross the finish line, surrounded by family and friends.

Jude’s mum, Laura said: "On that fateful day in June, our world fell apart. Jude was such a happy, smiley little boy who was dearly loved by many.

"There is no rhyme or reason for what happened, but what we do know is that we will never forget the care and compassion we received from all the staff we met at Bristol Children’s Hospital – we have complete admiration for them.

"Although our hospital stay was short lived there are so many sick children and families that rely on the hospital and charity’s support for months on end. As we left the hospital after Jude slipped away, Richard promised the consultant we would raise a shed load of money for them – and now, we are dedicated to doing exactly that."

On the evening of June 3, Jude complained of a tummy ache and after a night of sickness he was rushed to Musgrove Park Hospital in Taunton, Somerset. An abdominal scan confirmed that part of his bowel had died off and he was immediately rushed into theatre for emergency surgery.

A transfer team waited for Jude to come out of surgery before rushing him to the Paediatric Intensive Care Unit at Bristol Children’s Hospital. For the next 24 hours, Jude fought for his life but devastatingly he was not able to pull through.

Laura and Richard are eternally grateful for the support of all the staff at the hospital and the final moment they had with Jude in the hospital’s dedicated Rainbow Room – the space in the hospital for families to spent important moments with their child in the immediate bereavement period.

Wallace & Gromit’s Grand Appeal is the dedicated charity for Bristol Children’s Hospital. As well as supporting the hospital’s Paediatric Palliative Care and Bereavement Support Team, the charity also funds ground-breaking medical equipment, three family accommodation houses, 20 specialist support staff and a programme of art, music and play in partnership with the hospital and its Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at St Michael’s Hospital.

For more information on Wallace & Gromit’s Grand Appeal and the services they help to fund visit www.grandappeal.org.uk.

To support Richard and Laura and the Jogle for Jude team, please visit www.jogleforjude.co.uk or make a donation on their Just Giving page