One in four men in same-sex relationships experiencing violence

A study by Glasgow Caledonian University found services aren't equipped to support male victims of intimate partner violence

Author: Paul KellyPublished 13th Apr 2023

Domestic abuse in gay and bisexual relationships is going under the radar because services aren't equipped to help male victims, according to a study at Glasgow Caledonian University.

The report shows one in four people in the community have faced coercive control or physical abuse, with many victims too scared to speak out.

Some of the men impacted told the university's health psychology professors Jamie Frankis and Steven Maxwell of the stigma around their abuse, which means police did not take it seriously.

What is intimate partner violence?

Intimate partner violence (comprises of multiple types of abuse, including physical, sexual, social and mental health harm.

It can include violence, sexual coercion, psychological abuse and controlling behaviours, and it can be experienced from casual or one-off partners as well as regular or ex-partners.

The study found most gay and bisexual men who took part in the research described experiencing coercive control with emotional, physical and financial abuse.

It also contributed to short and long-term mental illness among victims, including anxiety, depression and post-traumatic stress disorder, the research said.

One participant said: "There's a huge stigma around men coming out as domestic abuse victims, because we're men, we should be able to deal with it and fight back."

Another said: "The police do not take it seriously. I think it was a complete lack of training. They didn't know how to treat it because it was man-on-man. There's just a complete lack of empathy or understanding from the police about same-sex relations."

Findings to be presented to MSPs at Holyrood

The researchers will present their findings to Holyrood later this month.

The evidence briefing for ministers makes recommendations to improve support and understanding of IPV experienced by gay and bisexual men.

It comes as the research found a common view that statutory services are not designed to support those in same-sex relationships and the wider LGBTQ+ needs.

It found it is not uncommon for health and policing services to dismiss the experiences of gay and bisexual men as they perceive the abuse in a heterosexual dynamic which linked masculinity with the perpetrators.

"Clear barriers for gay and bisexual men accessing support"

Prof Frankis said: "The fact that one in four gay and bisexual men have recently experienced IPV and that they are as likely as heterosexual women to experience violence from their partners highlights how important this is, but we found that there are clear barriers for gay and bisexual victims to accessing support services and they are simply not set up to cope with gay and bisexual issues around IPV."

Dr Maxwell, who is now based at Glasgow University, said: "IPV experienced by gay and bisexual men and wider LGBTQ+ folk is an issue that many are unaware of.

"We hope that this research will help bridge the knowledge gap, increase public awareness and lead to policy change at a national level."

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