Over 2,000 people in Buckinghamshire suddenly bereaved by Covid-19
The charity Sudden has released figures about bereavement from the pandemic
Buckinghamshire residents bereaved this year are being encouraged to seek help.
Sudden's, a national charity, analysis Government figures finding that 2,195 people in Buckinghamshire have been suddenly bereaved due to Covid-19 with 493 deaths.
Studies show that, for every death, there are at least five people on average who are bereaved of a close family member.
Sudden say that they have seen a huge increase in the number of people seeking help and advice following the death of a loved one.
Mary Williams OBE, Sudden's Chief Executive, said:
"Today's figures show that more than a quarter of a million people in the UK have been suddenly bereaved as a result of COVID-19, causing untold shock and turmoil and often huge practical and mental health challenges.
"For many, this heartache is particularly difficult over the Christmas period and it's vital that people who face an unexpected bereavement get access to emotional and practical support from day one, onwards, helping them cope, understand the reactions they are experiencing and stay safe.
"Sudden is at the frontline of helping people through their darkest hours, from day one of their bereavement, onwards. Early support can make a significant difference to someone's long-term wellbeing, as well as significantly reduce the economic costs to society of sudden bereavement."
Tips for helping someone suddenly bereaved from Sudden's guide:
- -Expect a range of reactions - a suddenly bereaved person can suffer a range of emotions, feelings, thoughts, physical reactions, and behaviors. This is normal, as long as they are kept safe.
- -Listen patiently to their bereavement story - actively listen to someone who is bereaved but do not talk about your own bereavements.
- -Ask open-ended questions that will help keep them healthy and safe - such as "Who is helping you this week?", "What shopping do you need?"
- -Look out for signs that they may be at risk, for example, from suicide, not eating, illness, or being unable to look after themselves, or others, or being harmed by someone else.
- -Encourage suddenly bereaved people to contact Sudden - who can provide support, advice, and information through a caseworker.
- -Look after yourself and do not expect to make things better soon.