Liam Payne honestly opens up about relationship with son Bear

He's spent 100 days at a treatment centre in America

Author: Alex RossPublished 12th Jul 2023
Last updated 12th Jul 2023

Following a tough few months, Liam Payne made his return to social media recently, uploading a YouTube video where he candidly opened up about his relationship with his son Bear Gray Payne, his comments about his One Direction band mates Harry Styles, Niall Horan, Louis Tomlinson and Zayn Malik, and the time he spent at a wellness centre in America.

Admitting he was without his phone for 100 days during a stay at a treatment facility in Louisiana, the 29-year-old revealed he is now six-months sober and said he now has "more of a grip on life."

Speaking about his relationship with six-year-old Bear, who he shares with ex-girlfriend Cheryl, Liam said: "Time with Bear’s been really, really great.

"More than anything, I want to say thank you to him and his mum for giving me a little bit of freedom to go and get well at that moment because I had to.

"There’s no point trying to be a dad when you’ve got nothing to teach and I don’t think up until this point I really had much to say to him other than just caring for him very deeply and loving him deeply, which is obviously the most important thing."

Recalling a recent moment where Bear text his dad, Liam added: "He actually texted me the other day from his iPad saying, 'Hello, Dad.' After Liam responded by saying 'ello', Bear replied: 'No, no, it's not ello it's hello with an H'.

"So, he’s learning really quickly. He's far smarter than I think I’ll ever be. He’s a wonder, but he’s definitely learning to talk at this moment in time and it’s a lot of fun to be around to watch him grow."

Check out Liam Payne's career below:

Early life

Liam James Payne was born in the Heath Town district of Wolverhampton on 29th August 1993, to parents Karen and Geoff Payne.


Liam attended St Peter's Collegiate School where he picked up an impressive 11 GCSEs, before later going on to attend Wolverhampton College's Paget Road campus, where he studied music technology.


At the age of just 12, Liam was a member of the Pink Productions Theatre Company, where he took on the role of Tony Manero during a production of Saturday Night Fever.

2008: The X Factor - First audition

A fresh-faced Liam auditioned for talent show The X Factor as a 14-year-old in 2008, singing 'Fly Me to the Moon' by Frank Sinatra.


Despite making it all the way to the Judges' Houses stage of the competition, Simon Cowell advised he should return in two years.

2010: The X Factor - Second audition

And he certainly did just that, returning for another audition in 2010 at the age of 16.


This time, Liam performed a rendition of Michael Bublé's 'Cry Me A River', where he received a standing ovation from judges Simon, Cheryl, Louis and Nicole, as well as the studio audience.


Despite being one of the favourites to win the show, Liam failed to progress to Judges' Houses, but his journey wasn't over just yet...

2010: One Direction are formed on The X Factor

Thanks to the genius idea from guest judge Nicole Scherzinger, Liam was placed into a boyband alongside fellow auditionees Harry Styles, Zayn Malik, Louis Tomlinson and Niall Horan, forming One Direction.


The boys immediately clicked, going all the way to the final and finishing in fourth place behind Cher Lloyd, Rebecca Ferguson and winner Matt Cardle.

2010-2015: One Direction's global domination

Following their birth on The X Factor, One Direction went on to become the biggest boyband on the planet, releasing five studio albums and winning over 200 awards worldwide.


The group also achieved 4 UK Number 1 songs, including tracks 'What Makes You Beautiful', 'Little Things', 'One Way Or Another' and 'Drag Me Down'.

2016: One Direction begin their hiatus

After Zayn Malik left the group in 2015, Liam, along with Harry, Niall and Louis, carried on with the band for another year, releasing their final album 'Made In The A.M.' before starting their hiatus in 2016.

2016: Liam signs solo record deal

After months of rumours about his own music, Liam signed his first ever solo record deal with Republic Records in October 2016.

2017: Liam drops his first solo single 'Strip That Down'

Fans were delighted in May 2017 when Liam released an upbeat track called 'Strip That Down', written by the one and only Ed Sheeran.


The track performed very well in the charts, reaching Number 3 in the Official UK Charts and Number 10 on the US Billboard Hot 100.

2017: Liam drops follow-up singles 'Get Low' and 'Bedroom Floor'

Following on from the success of his debut single 'Strip That Down', Liam teamed up with Zedd to release 'Get Low', before dropping bonus track 'Bedroom Floor'.

2018: Liam teams up with Rita Ora for Fifty Shades track

Liam joined forces with pop star Rita Ora in January 2018, with the pair duetting on hit single 'For You'. The song acted as the lead single from the soundtrack of the film Fifty Shades Freed.


Liam and Rita gave a number of amazing performances of the track, including at Hits Live and The BRIT Awards 2018.

2018: Liam's 'Strip That Down' receives two BRIT nominations

Liam picked up his first ever solo BRIT Award nominations at the 2018 ceremony, with his debut single 'Strip That Down' being nominated in the British Single and British Artist Video of the Year categories.


Unfortunately, Liam missed out on winning the awards on the night in February.

2018: Liam delays album and releases first EP

Following a successful year, Liam released his debut EP (extended play) in August 2018, featuring four tracks, including lead single 'First Time' with French Montana.

2018: Jonas Blue and Lennon Stella collab

Liam lent his vocals to DJ Jonas Blue's 2018 anthem 'Polaroid', alongside Canadian singer Lennon Stella. The track reached Number 12 on the UK Singes Chart and has since sold two million records.

2019: Another BRIT Award nomination

Liam received his third solo BRIT Award nomination at the 2019 awards, with himself and Rita Ora being nominated in the British Artist Video of the Year category for their track 'For You'.


Unfortunately, Liam and Rita missed out on the award to girl band Little Mix.

2019: Liam becomes Global Brand Ambassador for Hugo Boss

In May 2019, it was announced that Liam would become the first ever Global Brand Ambassador for fashion giant Hugo Boss.

2019: Liam releases his debut solo album 'LP1'

After confirming the release of his debut album had been postponed so he could make some adjustments (it was originally due for release in September 2018), Liam finally delighted fans in December 2019 when he released the album titled 'LP1'.


Liam took inspiration from Usher and Justin Timberlake for the album, featuring hits such as 'Familiar', 'Get Low', 'Strip That Down' and 'Stack It Up' featuring A Boogie wit da Hoodie.


'LP1' peaked at Number 17 on the Official UK Charts.

2019-2020: Christmas songs

Liam released his first ever Christmas song in 2019, a track called 'All I Want (For Christmas)', which was the first single off his debut solo album.


A year later in 2020, Liam teamed up with TikTok star Dixie D'Amelio to drop another Christmas hit, this time a track called 'Naughty List'.

2020: Hugo Boss x Liam Payne

After becoming the Global Brand Ambassador for Hugo Boss in 2019, Liam appeared in the fragrance campaign for their perfume Hugo Now in January 2020, before his capsule collection with the designer was launched in May 2020.

2020: Liam collabs with Alesso during lockdown

In an attempt to lift the spirits of his fans during the UK's 2020 lockdown, Liam teamed up with International DJ Alesso to drop the single 'Midnight'.

2021: 'Sunshine' and Ron's Gone Wrong

Liam released his first track of 2021 in October, a song called 'Sunshine' which features on 20th Century Studios animation Ron's Gone Wrong.


Liam also voiced an animated character on the movie. He said at the time: "I am such a big fan of Disney, so to be working on this is a dream come true. I can't wait for you all to hear Sunshine and to see "Ron's Gone Wrong." It has been a lot of fun!"

2022: Soccer Aid

Liam captained the England team, starring in a line-up alongside fellow musicians Tom Grennan and Aitch plus footballing legends Gary Neville and Teddy Sheringham. They went up against the World XI team made up of the likes of Usain Bolt, Munya Chawawa and Kem Cetinay, with footballer Patrice Evra adding to the more experienced side. Although the game ended 2-2, it went to penalties with the World team winning the game 4-1.

2023: Liam teases new music

Liam took to Instagram in January 2023, after a break, to drop a hint that new music was on the way. Sharing a black-and-white photo of himself holding a phone to his ear, he shared the snap with the tongue-in-cheek caption: 'Please hold good times and music will be with you shortly 🎵.' Of course, fans went wild in the comments section, debating over when the new music would drop!

2023: Liam makes a return following time away from spotlight

In July 2023, Liam posted a YouTube video titled 'I'm back', where he candidly opened up about spending 100 days at a treatment centre in Louisiana, after becoming somebody who he didn't really recognise anymore.


Liam opened up about his relationship with his son Bear in the video, as well as apologising to his One Direction band mates for his comments during his time on Logan Paul's podcast.


In the candid vid, Liam revealed he's now in a better place and has more of a grip on life.

2023: South American tour dates

Liam announced he'd be heading over to South America to perform at dates in Peru, Colombia, Chile, Brazil, Argentina and Mexico throughout September. Sadly, in August, he revealed he would have to postpone his tour as he had a serious kidney infection.

2024: Liam releases new single 'Teardrops'

Liam later delighted fans in February 2024 by releasing a new single called 'Teardrops'. This came after Liam previously teased new music on his Instagram page.


Shortly after its release, Liam also shared an acoustic version on his Insta page.

2024: Liam announced as Building the Band judge

In August 2024, Netflix announced that Liam was lined up to be one of three successful singers to sit on the judging panel of new show, Building the Band.


Filming began in the summer of 2024, with Liam guiding budding singers as they form their own band, based on chemistry, alongside fellow judges Nicole Scherzinger and Kelly Rowland.


The show is yet to be given a release date.

Tributes pour in for the late Liam Payne

There was heartbreaking news on Wednesday 16th October, announcing that Liam Payne had sadly died at the age of 31. It was reported that the singer died after falling from a hotel in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Our thoughts are with all those affected by the saddening news.

Following the tragic news breaking, tributes began to pour in for the late singer, including messages from Dermot O'Leary, Olly Murs, and Rylan Clark. From fellow celebs who worked with Liam, including the likes of Zedd, Charlie Puth and Cher Lloyd, who was on the same series of The X Factor as Liam.

During the candid video, Liam also admitted his appearance on Logan Paul's podcast was the turning point to make him change his life.

He said: "I just needed to take a little bit of time out for myself actually because I kind of became somebody who I didn’t really recognise anymore. I’m sure you guys didn’t either."

Apologising to his former One Direction band mates for the comments he made about them, Liam added: "A lot of what I said came from the wrong place. I was so angry at what was going on around me, and instead of taking a look inwards, I decided to look outwards at everybody else. And I just think, yeah, I took it out on everybody else, which is just wrong, really.

"My own frustrations with my own career and where I kind of landed, I took shots at everybody else, which is wrong, so obviously I want to apologise for that in the first instance, because that's definitely not me."

Following his 100-day stay in Louisiana, Liam is now in a much better place, with the 'Strip That Down' singer saying: "I kinda had to go away to kinda get better. The whole thing up to that point was just a scramble to stay relevant.

"I was in bad shape up to that point and I was really happy more than anything when I arrived to kind of put a stopper on life and work.

"I’ve got more of a grip on life and everything that was getting away from me, I just feel like I’ve got more of a handle on it."

Liam revealed the 'next chapter' of his music career earlier this month, sharing tour dates for shows in Peru, Colombia, Chile, Brazil, Argentina and Mexico throughout September.

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