What to do with babies, toddlers, kids and teenagers at home
We've sought expert advice for kids of all ages
Last updated 30th Mar 2020
The speed with which the Coronavirus outbreak has spread has changed all of our lives immeasurably. If you’re a parent, suddenly looking down the barrel of several months without schools, nurseries or, indeed, older relatives who can help with childcare, then daunting isn’t the word - especially when you’ve still got to try and fit work in somehow.
Our friends at Grazia have spoken to education experts, teachers, child psychologists and parents to pull together some of the best ideas, tips and online resources to keep children of any age occupied, and keep you sane.
But firstly, here are some of the golden rules the experts shared with us:
Cut yourself some slack
‘It’s going to be a difficult time for everybody and we’re going to have to get through it one way or another,’ says Dr Alice Bradbury, associate professor at the UCL institute of education (and a mother of three). ‘I know we worry about screen time and we don’t want to put them in front of the television all day and every day, but we all need to get through this period, and we all need to stay sane.’
‘Things we previously thought were solid and reliable have suddenly disappeared and it will take time for the dust to settle and to find our new “normal”,’ adds clinical psychologist Dr Marianne Trent, who specialises in psychological therapy for parents and guardians of children. ‘Don’t think we all need to suddenly be excellent at these new roles which have come upon us.’
Get used to mess
‘Get comfortable with it being a bit messy’ suggests Dawn Isaacs, author of 101 Things For Kids To Do Screen-Free (which is a great resource to have to hand over the next few months). ‘Don’t try and have a beautiful house and have the kids at home – be comfortable with that. Or if it really bothers you, you can always have a tidy up every day for an hour at the end and make that one of the activities they do.’
Don’t hover
‘There’s nothing wrong with letting children come up with their own stuff to do,’ says Isaacs. ‘I don’t think parents should be guilted into coming up with all the ideas, and actually, children are capable of coming up with ideas themselves. We can lose that creativity and imagination as we get older because their imaginations are better than yours.’
Do things that are out of the ordinary
‘Kids love anything that’s out of their ordinary,’ explains Isaacs, ‘so try a backwards day where they wear pyjamas, everything is done backwards, or pitch a tent in the living room, eat in the bathroom. Anything like that is so exciting and they’ll always remember it – they won’t always remember the greatest computer game.
Great resources for children at any age:
Family Lockdown Tips and Ideas
This group, set up by mother of two and teacher Claire Balkind, who was looking for ways to entertain her children when they were in self isolation, quickly got hundreds of thousands of of followers and is packed with tips and suggestions for what to do with your kids, as well as a hefty dose of moral support.
A website packed with five-minute ideas to keep your kids busy by the very clever Daisy Upton. Ideal if your working days have suddenly become an exercise in extreme multitasking.
Audible has announced that hundreds of children’s books will be available to stream for free, and you don’t even need to register. Head to Audible for more information.
Teacher-created planning and assessment materials, including daily timetables to support home learning.
Things to do with babies and preschoolers at home
Whether you’re trying to fit work around nap times or you’re suddenly mourning the end of the baby groups, you might be worrying about how to entertain a baby under the age of one if you can’t leave the house.
‘As babies grow older and sleep less they also need time for adult company and stimulation. The amount of time will depend on the age of the babies,’ explains Anne Sheldon, CEO of The London Preschool, which has nurseries around the capital. ‘This does not mean that they need constant attention when they are awake, rather a mix of adult contact time and time to explore and learn about the world around them.’
Sheldon suggests using simple, safe household objects to let a child explore: ‘Babies can entertain themselves for short periods of time but please always keep them in your line of vision when they are awake. Give a baby a basket full of safe kitchen resources such as wooden spoons, non-glass measuring containers, safe plastic implements and most babies will explore these for a period of time on their own with an adult closeby.’
‘Always, always sensory play,’ agrees Susie Robbins, the mother-of-three behind the Resolve To Play Instagram account, which is packed with brilliant and simple ideas for play for babies and preschoolers. She suggests coming up with ideas that engage different senses – ‘so for touch, you could try water play, you could pop a baking tray on the floor, add a little water and float a rubber duck in it – this will encourage tummy time and they will love learning about cause and effect too.’ (Babies and young children must always be supervised around water, no matter how shallow.)
‘Or for sound, create a circle of toys that make a noise, around your baby – this encourages movement during tummy time, or pre-crawling circles. You could pop some light foil over baby's legs and let them listen to the rustle and crunch as they kick. Or for sight, you could turn the lights off and run a shallow bath, add some glow sticks for a baby rave!’
Robbins also creates treasure baskets on her Instagram page, which are simple ways to keep a baby entertained: ‘They are a great way of creating sensory experiences for your baby – take a box or basket and fill it with baby safe bits and bobs from around the house. Brushes with bristles to stimulate the sense of touch, shiny objects such as spoons or chunky bracelets to simulate sight, for example. Change the content of the basket weekly.’
But equally, don’t feel like you need to wheel out something new for them every day. ‘Babies absolutely love repetitive play,’ explains Robbins, ‘as it helps to strengthen the synapses in their brain when they learn something new, so don’t tidy up activities, if it is safe to do so leave them out and let baby go back to them again and again. And again and again.’
Preschoolers
If you’ve taken your child out of nursery, or they’re used to being looked after by grandparents who are now self isolating, then they might be unsettled. But, reassuringly, most neuro-typical children are quick to adapt to change, explains Dr Trent.
However, she points out that they often take their lead from us, and if we’re feeling stressed or anxious (which, let’s face it, is a totally normal response right now) then they might notice that. ‘I wonder whether the real question is how will the grown-ups respond to the change in routine and then convey this to their young people? It’s unsettling for many of us and I think that we must all allow ourselves a period of adjustment and allow our children and young people to do the same.’
And even though your child’s still pretty young, don’t feel like you should be hovering over them every moment of the day. ‘Children of this age need time to play on their own, Sheldon explains. ‘Imaginative play for example is incredible at this age and it is important that children have this opportunity to express themselves and try out situations through play.’
This doesn’t mean you need to go out and buy a whole new bunch of things for your children to play with now either. ‘You already have everything that you need at home, but I do recommend that you get organised,’ says Susie Robbins. ‘You don’t need to buy any new toys as you can easily maximise the impact of the toys you already have.
Toy rotation is extremely effective. Categorise your toys: cars, books, soft toys, dolls and so on. Leave out one category box and put the rest away – out of sight. Every week swap the box around and it’ll be like Christmas with new toys each time! You can also do this by theme if you have an older child (sea life, space, construction) and use different types of toys within that theme, a book, puzzle, soft toy.
Resources and things to do with babies and preschoolers:
Susie Robbins’ instagram account, which features great ideas for treasure baskets and games for babies and preschoolers.
Another great Instagram account filled with clever ideas and wonderful treasure baskets for babies to explore
Claire Balkind’s Instagram features great ideas for treasure baskets, as well as play prompts for babies.
Every day Tumble Tots are running free live sessions on their Facebook page at 10AM, which are available to watch later on YouTube. Perfect if you’re stuck indoors and you feel like your child needs to burn off some energy.
TinyTalk baby signing and toddler talking classes
If you’d always fancied learning baby sign language or would like to develop your toddler’s communication skills, Tiny Talk are offering e-sessions for £4 a time in lieu of IRL classes. Use the website to find a teacher near you and view their weekly schedule…
Beautifully illustrated teaching resources that can be printed off at home and are available via a subscription service. There is a 25% discount during March
An Instagram account run by two primary school teachers, with great games for getting your child ready for school – perfect if they’re nearing school age and have been unexpectedly taken out of nursery.
Things to do with primary school-aged children at home
It might be tempting to launch straight into a full school-style timetable with your primary-school aged children, but you’ll find that will be too intense for most children. ’Do not try to recreate school structure, explains Dr Bradbury. It's impossible – the school day is based on having 30 children in a classroom, so you’re never going to recreate the rhythm of the day that they would have at school, in fact it’s going to be a lot more intense, if you’re playing with a child one to one, so it’s also important to make sure they’re going to play independently.’
She also explains that the key is to pick the right activity for your children – both in terms of the right level (‘find things that are a bit difficult for them, but not impossible’) but also reflects their interests. ‘This is your chance for your child to explore their particular interests and talent more – so if they’re really fascinated by dinosaurs let them do a project on dinosaurs, this is your chance to let them guide you.’
And on a practical level, Dr Bradbury thinks we’re all going to have to cut ourselves some slack over the next few months: ‘One thing I think we’re all going to need if we’re all going to be together all the time is time quietly getting on with things. It’s going to be a difficult time for everybody and we’re going to have to get through it one way or another.’
Dawn Isaacs also suggests setting your children up with things they can run with for hours. ‘Set them up and let them run with it – get them to try junk modelling with old containers, pretty much empty recycling and let them at it, and it will keep them busy for ages. Junk fashion shows are great – give them masking tape, bin bags and newspaper, it costs nothing, you’re being creative and interesting. If you’ve got a bit of outdoor space, get them to make their own fairy houses. Kids’ imaginations are amazing, if you set them up, they can go on for hours.’
Resources and things to do with primary school-aged children at home:
Yoga and mindfulness (in the Zen Den!) for children aged five and up – perfect if your child is feeling anxious and unsettled at the moment.
The husband-and-wife team have started doing free art workshops on Instagram at 12pm on a Wednesday. Perfect for a child who is missing art classes, or an adult who could really do with 30 minutes of downtime…
Weareteachers.com have published this fantastic list of children's authors who will be doing live readings of their books (plus a few celeb cameos – hey Oprah) while kids are off school.
Cypher is putting on coding e-courses for children aged 6-12, with four different groups within that age range. At £195, they aren’t cheap, but include five 1.5 hour sessions with 4-6 students per class, so good if you’re hoping to recreate a classroom experience for periods of time.
If your children are learning to read using phonics, PhonicsPlay have made their site free to use during the coronavirus outbreak, giving everyone access to videos, games and flashcards.
STEM educators looking to make science fun for kids, their website is full of ideas for at-home experiments your kids can try while they’re off, as well as live online shows for £5 per child (although they book up fast!).
The much-loved author’s website is currently offering up a plethora of lesson plans, quizzes and games, all based around his iconic books and characters, for children to use at home.
Things to do with secondary school-aged children at home
You’ll probably find that older children will have access to work via an e-learning hub and specific work to do, but if you want to avoid several months of conflict, agree a schedule with your child that’s as collaborative as possible, and takes into account their interests.
One secondary school teacher we spoke to who was preparing students for months of social distancing last week explained that it’s important to take their fears about loneliness and isolation seriously. ‘We asked children what they were concerned about before they finished up on Friday, and they weren’t necessarily worried about contracting the virus, it was the loneliness.’ For this reason, she doesn’t recommend you instantly take away your child’s phone or Xbox, for example, as these are all ways they’ll be connecting with their peers and friends.
‘Talk to them about what they’re worried about – reassure them that it’s normal to be worried at a time like this, but it’s all temporary and it will get easier as they get used to it,’ she explains. ‘Give them an opportunity to show off their knowledge and skills, whether that’s in demonstrating some work they’ve done, or helping you prepare a meal for the family.
‘Use the opportunity to talk to them about healthy eating, get them to weigh out ingredients for you – things that give them a sense of responsibility and a chance to be productive.’ She also thinks a routine is important – try to get them to get up and dressed at the same time each day and have regular mealtimes. Apart from anything else, it will make it a lot easier when they finally do go back to school.’
Like with younger children, she suggests using your child’s hobbies and what they’re already interested in – if they’re in a band, help them set up their rehearsals via a video conferencing app, or if they’re into board games, a site like Dicebreaker allows them to play online with their friends.
Resources and things to do with secondary-school aged children at home:
Create quick-fire quizzes for the whole family by topic or key stage, especially good if you’ve got a couple of competitive teenagers. You can sign up for free, and the premium version is currently free for teachers to sign up to.
The free language-learning app breaks things down into fun, bite-sized chunks.
A bit niche, but if your child is a music student, the music composition tool is offering free 90-day licences of their creative tools at the moment.
The publisher is offering free 90-day trials of their digital learning and teaching services, including digital versions of their textbooks.
Google is offering virtual tours of some of the world’s leading museums, galleries and cultural landmarks – including MOMA in New York, the Tate here in the UK and the Eiffel tower.
Allows your child or teenager to connect with and play board games with friends and family members they can’t see IRL at the moment, online.
Now take a look at some other ways to keep your kids entertained at home:
Treasure hunt
If you're stuck at home for a while, then make it fun for your kids by hiding things around the house, and garden.
Whether it's eggs in the run up to Easter, or a total surprise, you can find plenty of ideas for clues on the Internet and we're sure you'll find some tricky places to hide the prizes.
Why not try out this Treasure Hunt Game from Amazon for £25.95?
I Spy
Normally saved for travelling in the car, why not try I Spy at home? Don't feel restricted to items in the house, if the weather is good get outside and choose something there. "I spy with my little eye…"
Science experiment
We're not recommending you turn your kitchen into a chemistry lab, but there are plenty of child-friendly science experiments available online or in the shops.
Whether you want to grow crystals, or make slime there will be something to occupy your kids. Just beware, it could get a bit messy!
Why not try out this Science Kit for Kids from Amazon for £15.99?
Painting
Painting, whether it's finger painting, or something more refined, it's a great way to spend a few hours (or even longer). If think your artistic skills are a limited then why not try painting by numbers instead?
Why not try out this Crayola Washable Kids Paint from Amazon for £4.99?
Learn a new language or improve one you already know
Always wanted to get your family learning a new language, or had to cancel a holiday recently? It doesn't matter that you aren't in the country that speaks the language. There are plenty of online language classes from free videos on YouTube to full courses that you pay for.
Why not try out this French Audio Course from Amazon for £14.72?
Computer games
There are so many computer games available, the list is endless, but there are plenty of party games suitable for kids and families to play, for the older kids, there are many games that will occupy them for hours or even days!
Pizza making
Make cooking a fun part of the day by getting your kids to make their own pizzas. If you're feeling adventurous you can make the dough yourself, otherwise just get the pizza bases and cover them with toppings of your choice.
Baking
If savoury cooking isn't your thing, try baking. Making a cake or cupcakes can be a great way to have fun in the kitchen with your little ones, for the younger ones they can help you decorate the cake. Meanwhile, older ones can help you make the mixture from scratch.
Den-making
It's time to take all of the cushions off the sofa and get the spare sheets out of the cupboard. There's nothing better than making a den for big and little kids, it might even take you back to your childhood.
In the garden
Even if the weather isn't great you can get your kids' green fingers started inside. Now is a great time to pick up some seedlings and sort out your greenhouse.
If the weather is good, get out and explore the garden. Grab a magnifying glass and have a look at the insects and plants a bit closer!
Board games
Don't discredit the good old board games. Although you might be tempted to bring out some of the family favourites like Monopoly or Scrabble, why not push the boat out and try something a bit different. It can be fun to learn a new board game as a family, some games that are easy to pick up include Carcassonne or Port Royal.
Why not try out Carcassonne from Amazon for £25.95?
Puzzles
Whatever their age, you'll be able to find a suitable puzzle, from the simple 10-piece ones for the younger kids, to the 1000 piece puzzles for the old kids, puzzles are a great way to occupy kids for a few hours over the week.
If you can set aside some space for it, then even better so they can go back to it when they have a moment. Finishing a puzzle can be a great sense of achievement and you can even buy some puzzles suitable for framing.
Why not try out this Impossible Puzzle from Amazon for £7.50?
Have a go at Origami
You don't have to visit Japan, to have a go at Origami and you don't even have to have fancy paper to do it, you can start off with some plain square paper (just fold an A4 piece into a diagonal).
Step-by-step directions on how to create everything from the crane to dinosaur can be found online for free, so if you have plenty of time on your hands this is a great skill to hone.
Why not try out this Origami Kit from Amazon for £13.99?
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