My Mum, Your Dad's Natalie reveals real reason for split from Paul

Fans had high hopes for the pair

Author: Alex RossPublished 29th Sep 2023

Following the final episode of Davina McCall's My Mum, Your Dad last Friday (22nd September), fans were both shocked and gutted to learn that contestants Natalie and Paul were no longer together, revealing they'd chosen to split in August.

After releasing a joint statement which revealed they are still friends, 44-year-old Natalie has now taken part in an interview with OK! Magazine, where she delved further into the reasons for their shock split.

She told the publication: "I won't go into huge detail about our split because I think that for both of us, it is really respectful to not. I'm big on not airing people's dirty laundry but sometimes things just don't align. I had an experience there and for me, it was so genuine.

"Everyone has said that that you could see in my face in the last episode at the workshop where I had the manifestation, just how hopeful and excited I was and how I really thought, ‘Oh, my gosh, maybe, maybe… Maybe it's happening for me.’"

She added: "In the real world you have to really get to know each other, and sometimes you just work out that it's best to do life separately.

"I think, rather than going around and around, it's just more kind and loving to make that healthy choice to end it.

"I think you can learn and grow from everything in life. I'm not someone who, just because something didn't work, would close myself off or shut myself down or beat myself up, that it didn't work. I'm just like, 'OK, I've learned what I've learned from that and appreciated the experience.'"

Natalie went on to reveal the current state of her relationship with Paul, saying: "I wouldn't ever be super close friends with him, because when I go to meet someone else…

"I wouldn't spend every day with him chatting away to him on the phone, because that wouldn't be respectful of the next person that came along but would we have a laugh if we went to social events together? Absolutely! We had a real laugh on our whole journey."

Check out all of the My Mum, Your Dad couples below:

Are Janey and Roger still together?

Roger was nominated by his daughter Jess for the show, following the sad passing of his wife in 2022. Despite initially enjoying a date with Scottish contestant Caroline, it was the arrival of Janey, who was nominated by her son Will, that really helped Roger open up. After cooling things with Caroline so he could explore things further with Janey, the pair enjoyed spending time together in the retreat, and even shared their first kiss during their final date.


Despite Janey's son Will and Roger's daughter Jess having a few reserves, when they met during the final episode it appeared these were put to bed, with both kids giving their parents their blessings.


Are Janey and Roger still together?
They are! One day after the final episode aired, both Janey and Roger took to social media to confirm they are still going strong. Janey shared a picture of the pair cuddling in bed, whilst Roger posted a photo of the pair at the beach, revealing they are happier than ever!


Since then, the couple have shared loved-up holiday photos, and even discussed future marriage plans! In July 2024, the pair appeared on Loose Women to celebrate their one-year anniversary, where they revealed they more-or-less live together at Janey's place.

Are Natalie and Paul still together?

Natalie was nominated by her son Kaliel for the show, and she was quick to make an impression with Paul, who was nominated by his daughter Mazey. The pair had an instant connection in the retreat and were the first couple to share a snog during the school disco party. Since that moment, they enjoyed getting to know each other more, and displayed a lot of affection around the other cast mates, looking very comfortable in each other's company. On their final date, Natalie even opened up to Paul about her past addictions and troubles.


The positive vibes continued when the pair met each other's kids during the final episode, with both Natalie and Paul being full of praise for each other, both admitting they want things to work outside of the retreat after getting the blessing of Kaliel and Mazey.


Are Natalie and Paul still together?
Unfortunaly not. Despite viewers having high hopes for the pair, one day after the final episode aired they took to social media to release a joint statement which read: Firstly just wanted to say thank you for the overwhelming support from everyone who has watched the show and how invested you have been with our journey. It was an incredible experience and one that we will be forever grateful for taking part in.


'Nat and I had an incredible experience in the retreat and loved every moment, we continued that connection over the summer and had some great times together. Unfortunately in early August we decided to call a day on the relationship. We are both still friends and wish each other the best. Thank you for your continued support and we're very thankful to @davinamccall @itv @mymumyourdaduk for all we gained from the experience❤️'. (sic)

Are Sharon and Elliott still together?

Sunderland lass Sharon was nominated by her daughter Tia for the show, after suffering heartbreak in her past relationships. She quickly caught the eye of PE Teacher Elliott, with the couple enjoying get to know each other in the retreat. Despite their obvious connection, Sharon struggled to be open with Elliot due to her past trauma in relationships, but Elliott was quick to reassure her that he was willing to go at a slow pace in order to pursue the romance.


Whilst meeting each other's children during the final episode, both Sharon and Elliott seemed positive about the future, despite the long-distance between the two in Sunderland and Essex. Sharon's daughter Tia and Elliott's son Zachary both championed the relationship, both giving their blessings.


Are Sharon and Elliott still together?
After the show aired, both Sharon and Elliott shared cosy snaps together on social media, revealing they have plans to move into together. HOWEVER, in November 2023, reports emerged that the pair had split, with Sharon unfollowing Elliott on Instagram.

Are Monique and Martin M still together?

After being nominated for the show by her daughter Taiya, things got off to a slow start for Monique, with the therapist admitting she wasn't attracted to any of the men. However, when new arrivals Martin M and Martin H arrived into the retreat, Monique came into her own! Following a number of dates with the Martins, Monique found herself in a love square alongside fellow contestant Tollulah, but during the final few episodes, Martin M admitted his feelings were strongest for Monique. The pair then enjoyed a final date together, where Monique hinted she'd be happy to move to Ibiza, where Martin lives!


However, following the visit from her daughter Taiya during the final episode, Monique had doubts about Martin's true feelings, later quizzing him about his actions towards her during their time in the retreat.


As fans will know, Monique ended things with Martin during the final episode, admitting she felt they just weren't right for each other. Following the conversation, Martin admitted the experience has taught him to take people's feelings into consideration more. The pair left the retreat as friends.

Following last Friday's finale, viewers of the hit new dating show inundated the cast members with questions asking about their relationships. After both Janey and Roger, and Sharon and Elliott confirmed they were very much still together, fans were left gutted to learn Natalie and Paul had gone their separate ways.

47-year-old Paul wrote on social media: 'Hey everyone. Firstly just wanted to say thank you for the overwhelming support from everyone who has watched the show and how invested you have been with our journey. It was an incredible experience and one that we will be forever grateful for taking part in.

'Nat and I had an incredible experience in the retreat and loved every moment, we continued that connection over the summer and had some great times together. Unfortunately in early August we decided to call a day on the relationship. We are both still friends and wish each other the best. Thank you for your continued support and we’re very thankful to @davinamccall @itv @mymumyourdaduk for all we gained from the experience❤️'. (sic)

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