Dr Alex George opens up about his first Christmas without his little brother

His younger brother Llŷr tragically passed away earlier this year

Author: Nathan KatnoriaPublished 18th Dec 2020

Dr Alex George has opened up about preparing for his first Christmas without his younger brother Llŷr, who tragically passed away earlier this year following a battle with his mental health.

The former Love Island star has been open about his grieving process with fans on social media and admitted that the festive period will be “tough” for him and his family.

As part of his campaign to raise awareness for mental health, Alex said, “Going towards Christmas is hard. Some days are good days, some days are bad days. Grief is an evolving thing. I've never had to grieve like this before.

“People say 'oh Alex you do all this stuff, you achieve all this stuff', and actually sometimes it's not a good thing. Stopping and processing is a part of grief. Sometimes, I have to slow down and take more time to allow myself to feel what I feel.”

“I love Christmas, I'm such a Christmassy person but obviously this one is going to be very difficult,” he added to the Mirror.

“The first without a family member is always going to be hard. I think it's going to be really tough for the rest of us, but obviously with Covid you can't exactly have a big Christmas.

"We'll have a very private Christmas this year and just get through it. There is no doubt it's going to be tough.”

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During appearance on ITV’s Lorraine earlier this year, Dr Alex revealed he was when he out for dinner with friends when he received the heart-breaking news that Llŷr had died and said he felt “tremendous guilt”.

Alex explained, “You know, I'm the older brother, I always wanted to protect him, look after him. I thought, 'What could I have done differently? I'm supposed to be a mental health advocate and all the work I've done around it.'

"So it was anguish. It was the worst thing. Mental health and physical health is akin. Just as you can have a heart attack and pass away, mental health is just the same. Depression is an illness. That's why it's so important we treat it that way."

Our thoughts are with Dr Alex and his family.

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