Scottish teenager calls for more support to tackle bullying in schools

The teen says she's been told to take her own life a number of times

Published 8th Feb 2018

A teenager from East Ayrshire has revealed harrowing details of the bullying and torment she faces every day at school.

It's in a bid to raise more awareness and call for better support.

The 14 year-old girl, who we're keeping anonymous, said: "Secondary school is the worst because of the bullying.

"I've never been able to fit in. I think it's because I don't like make-up or fancy clothes. I'm different.

"It's gotten worse recently. I've been told to go and kill myself and I'm not worth anything. It's hard to listen to.

"I've done nothing wrong to deserve it. I can't understand why I'm bullied and it makes me not want to go to school. I sometimes pretend to be sick so I can stay off. I just want to hide in a corner.

"I don't really get support from anyone except my mum and dad. I tell the teachers and it stops but only for a few days. Then it's back to the same cycle again."

Her mum has had a number of meetings with staff at the school and admits there is only so much teachers can do.

She said: "As a mum you would do anything to protect your child. But bullying seems to be the one thing that I can't stop.

"The school have tried to intervene but it's behind closed doors. They can't monitor children 24/7 and I completely understand that.

"But when you're child is repeatedly told to kill themselves, I really think there should be powers for someone to intervene and stop this kind of bullying immediately.

"It seems so wrong that this is happening in our schools throughout Ayrshire. I don't believe that any school can say they 100% have an anti-bullying environment for their students."

Linda McAulay-Griffiths, East Ayrshire Council’s Head of Education designate said: “All our schools, teachers and pupils are expected to adhere to our ‘respectful relationships’ policy which comprehensively sets out the standards of relationships we expect from all pupils and staff in our schools.

“Any behaviour falling below these standards is treated seriously and, no matter how small, we record it and act quickly to deal with it.”

“In this particular instance, the policy and procedures have been followed correctly and we have been providing ongoing support and assistance to the family. We will continue to work with them, directing our efforts to fully address their concerns.

“However, as we value and respect the privacy of all our pupils, families and staff, I’m sure people will understand it would not be appropriate to make any further comment.”

Pamela Graham is from Scottish anti-bullying charity 'Respect Me' and says it's a situation she sees all too often and it's up to everyone, not just teachers, to stamp it.